Sunscreen

ok, i know this is probably the supreme cheese to most of you, but this morning as iwas getting ready for my breakfast date with amy-jo, something inside my head broke down and the memorized parts of this speech came rushing back to my awareness. it put me in high spirits. reread this, just for fun. it's really pretty good. the part that i remembered this morning was "don't be reckless with other people's hearts. don't put up with people who are reckless with yours." that's good! it means something different to me now than it did then. in light of Christ and his example of forgiveness and acceptance, i think it just means that we are supposed to decide how we are going to treat someone and then do it, regardless of how our pride suddenly kicks in or our heart starts hurting or our "list of wrongs" that we are not supposed to keep comes popping up in our heads and we become the defense against all those around us who are reckless with our hearts. because the bottomline is that people are reckless and selfish but lots of us are trying to be different. it's hard to be different when our natural response is to protect ourselves or try to make our case clear to the world.
but sometimes, you just have to stop. just stop and do the thing that scares you, or the thing that doesn't feel natural, or the thing that hardens you to difficulties while not making you everyone's doormat. how do you love those who aren't being all that loveable? and how do you understand their side, so that you realize maybe they are doing all they can today and their best just won't be what we think it should be. their best might be crap to us and it might hurt us and we might take it personally, but it might just be all they have to give.
Amy Bryant once told me "God will promote you." Those words are so important to me. God will defend my case, uphold my cause. He will make it shine in His righteousness.

Ok, go read the sunscreen song...pick one sentence and do it today.

Baz Luhrman - Sunscreen Speech
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Ladies and Gentlemen of the class of ?9...Wear sunscreen


If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be it. The long term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by scientists, whereas the rest of my advice has no basis more reliable than my own meandering experience. I will dispense this advice now.

Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth; oh nevermind; you will not understand the power and beauty of your youth until they have faded. But trust me, in 20 years youll look back at photos of yourself and recall in a way you cant grasp now how much possibility lay before you and how fabulous you really looked...Youre not as fat as you imagine.

Dont worry about the future; or worry, but know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubblegum. The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind; the kind that blindside you at 4pm on some idle Tuesday.

Do one thing everyday that scares you

Sing

Dont be reckless with other peoples hearts, dont put up with people who are reckless with yours.

Floss

Dont waste your time on jealousy; sometimes youre ahead, sometimes youre behind...the race is long, and in the end its only with yourself.

Remember the compliments you receive, forget the insults; if you succeed in doing this, tell me how.

Keep your old love letters, throw away your old bank statements.

Stretch

Dont feel guilty if you dont know what to do with your life...the most interesting people I know didnt know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives, some of the most interesting 40 year olds I know still dont.

Get plenty of calcium

Be kind to your knees, youll miss them when theyre gone.

Maybe youll marry, maybe you wont, maybe youll have children, maybe you wont, maybe youll divorce at 40, maybe youll dance the funky chicken on your 75th wedding anniversary...what ever you do, dont congratulate yourself too much or berate yourself either - your choices are half chance, so are everybody elses.

Enjoy your body, use it every way you can...dont be afraid of it, or what other people think of it, its the greatest instrument youll ever own.

Dance...even if you have nowhere to do it but in your own living room.

Read the directions, even if you dont follow them.

Do NOT read beauty magazines, they will only make you feel ugly.

49 second break in speech -- Quindon singing

Get to know your parents, youll never know when theyll be gone for good. Be nice to your siblings; they are the best link to your past and the people most likely to stick with you in the future.

Understand that friends come and go, but for the precious few you should hold on. Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography in lifestyle because the older you get, the more you need the people you knew when you were young.

Live in New York City once, but leave before it makes you hard; live in Northern California once, but leave before it makes you soft.

Travel.

Accept certain inalienable truths, price will rise, politicians will philander, you too will get old, and when you do youll fantasize that when you were young prices were reasonable, politicians were noble and children respected their elders.

Respect your elders.

Dont expect anyone else to support you. Maybe you have a trust fund, maybe you have a wealthy spouse; but you never know when either one might run out.

Dont mess too much with your hair, or by the time its 40, it will look 85.

Be careful who advice you buy, but be patient with those who supply it. Advice is a form of nostalgia, dispensing it is a way of fishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts and recycling it for more than its worth.

But trust me on the sunscreen...